How we handle our anger matters to God. Jesus says in Matthew 5:21-26 that we are subject to judgment for being angry like those who murder are subject to judgment. But through anger, we have the opportunity to respond in such a way that we show we are God's children. We can own our part in conflict and ask for forgiveness to settle it quickly, pursuing a path of peace. Ultimately the big picture that saves us all from our anger is Jesus. He gave His life for our anger so that we don't have to be angry and face judgment for it when we believe in Him.