Your tongue is small but it can ruin your entire life. Most of us know that gossip, hurtful words, white lies, cussing, dirty jokes, complaining, arguing, etc are unhealthy habits and yet we canÃ�Â¢Ã¯Â¿Â½Ã¯Â¿Â½t seem get our tongues under control. GodÃ�Â¢Ã¯Â¿Â½Ã¯Â¿Â½s word tells us that weÃ�Â¢Ã¯Â¿Â½Ã¯Â¿Â½ll never be able to tame our tongues. The things coming out of our mouths are the unstoppable byproduct of the things that are going into our hearts. Nothing will happen to our tongues until something happens in our hearts.