How Do I Know If My Child Is Ready For Baptism?

Baptism Sunday at Watermark is quickly approaching, one of our favorite times of the year here at Watermark Kids. Mark your calendars for May 1st! While baptisms happen all throughout the year, this particular Sunday each year is a special one and it allows us the chance to meet individually with numerous kids to talk about how the gospel of Jesus has saved them!

As parents, many of you have wrestled with the question of whether your child is ready for baptism at this time or not. That is not an easy question to answer, nor is it a small one. Baptism is and should be a big deal in the life of every believer. So, how can you know whether the time is right for your child to take this important step of obedience?

What Is Baptism?

First of all, let’s make sure we are on the same page regarding what baptism is. Here is how we understand the ordinance of baptism according to Watermark’s belief statement:

We believe Christ instituted the ordinances of water baptism and the Lord’s Supper, both of which are to be observed by believers until He returns (Matthew 28:19-20; I Corinthians 11:23-26).

We believe by water baptism a believer is publicly identified with his Savior and that infants of believing parents may be dedicated to the Lord but should not be baptized until they can personally articulate their faith and the purpose of baptism.

For more information about how we view baptism here at Watermark, check out Todd’s sermon entitled Baptism: Why You Should, Why Your Shouldn’t & What It’s For.

What Should Be Expected Before a Child is Baptized?

Secondly, here are some of the principles you should look for as you assess your child’s readiness.

  • Child Initiated – As baptism is a personal expression of one’s love and identification with Christ, it is expected that this is a spiritual conviction of the child not driven by the parent. It should be an event that is primarily meaningful to the child.
  • The child will know what baptism is: a symbolic display, a public display, a counter-cultural statement.
  • The child will know what baptism is not: an action that leads to salvation, something “cool” to do, a membership requirement.
  • The child will be able to share the gospel including memory verses for support.
  • The child will be able to stand up in front of others and articulate their grace story.

If your child has expressed interest in baptism on their own initiative, here are some questions you can ask to clarify their readiness:

  • Why do you want to be baptized?
  • What do we need to be saved from? Why? What did God do to save you?
  • Do you believe that baptism saves you? Why or why not?
  • Explain to me how someone could know for sure that they are going to heaven.
  • How do you feel about standing up in front of a group of people to share your story of grace?

**Note: You should avoid “yes or no” questions and/or leading questions (i.e. “Do you believe that baptism is a symbolic, public display of your faith in Jesus who saved you?”; “Do you believe that you a sinner and that Jesus died on the cross to save you from your sins?”)

What Does the Process Look Like at Watermark?

If after considering the above expectations, you believe that your child is ready for baptism, our team is excited to meet with them to help you confirm that decision. Proverbs 15:22 says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” The Watermark Kids team is excited to be a part of the “many advisers” for your family as you process that decision. That process looks like this:

  • Contact the appropriate person for your campus to schedule an interview. Interview times vary by campuses.
    • Dallas: Contact Jessica Coats ( to register.
    • Plano: Contact Jinger Lord ( to register.
    • Ft. Worth: Contact Jason Bradshaw ( to register.
  • Your child will have an interview with two leaders by himself/herself.
  • Following this interview we will bring you into the conversation and let you know if we would encourage your child to be baptized.
  • Ultimately it will be the your choice; however, a child needs to be able to fulfill the above expectations. We would like you to know that many of the pastor’s children at Watermark have not yet been baptized because we want it to be a meaningful thing in our children’s lives.

Join the Celebration

Whether this ends up being the year your child is baptized or not, baptism is always an awesome opportunity for your family to be confronted with the truth of the gospel: that we were once dead in our sins, but we have been raised to new life through faith in Jesus, the Son of God (Romans 6:4)! Make plans to join us for the celebration and be sure to gather around the water with your kids to talk about this amazing picture of the hope we affirm!

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